Failure to be the best isn’t something to be ashamed about or disappointed in. I embrace the fact that I am and will always be an Average Joe because ironically, it has become my greatest strength.
As a kid, my parents pretty much signed me up for every activity they came across, so by the time I could sit up in a chair, I began piano lessons. When my cousin enrolled in Chinese folk dance lessons, I found myself thrown in the same studio. Then came art, basketball, ice-skating, ballet, swim and the list goes on.
On one hand, I was grateful to have such wonderful experiences. But on the other hand, I was constantly disappointed with my inability to come out on top. Yes, I was good at piano but not enough to be a prodigy. I was a fast swimmer, but not enough to be the most valuable member on the team.
I envied my peers who put years of effort into one area and became a master in their subject. I felt like the hard work that I’d put into so many different activities were a waste because in the end, I couldn’t label myself as “great” at anything.
I became caught up in achieving quantitative success instead of feeling proud of the accomplishments I had. Sure, I’m not a music prodigy, but I can play the piano and violin well enough for my parents to listen and enjoy. I may not be the fastest swimmer, but I can still contribute to a relay team.
Just having the experience of being in different sports and extracurriculars helped me gain valuable lessons and abilities. In reality, I have so many skills and experiences to be proud of. I’ve realized that not everyone is fated to be the best at something, and obsessing over unrealistic and meaningless success will get me nowhere.
It can also be easy to be caught up in a glamorous image of your future. Up until recently, I struggled with figuring out what I truly wanted to pursue. I wasn’t able to escape this unrealistic career plan that seemed exciting at the time, but was completely misaligned with the kind of lifestyle and work I wanted to do.
In truth, becoming a big shot billionaire may be the right path for someone else, but it’s important to find something that you are well-suited for. Thankfully, I was able to realize my passion for healthcare. I was even accepted to one of the top, most selective nursing schools, and I look forward to pursuing a career that I can thrive in.
So to all the Average Joes out there, take on the world by being your best mediocre self. We all need more people that have their own individual strengths to contribute in society. Just try your best, be happy with what you do, and that’s all that matters.
TCHS School Newspaper